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The Anxiety Behind the Ambition with Dr. Afsheen Anwar

Dr. Afsheen Anwar is a Registered Clinical and Counselling Psychologist in Ontario with a PhD in Psychology and over 23 years of clinical experience across individual, couples, family, and group therapy settings. She is a member of the Canadian Psychological Association and the Ontario Psychological Association, and is licensed to practice as an autonomous clinical psychologist in both Ontario and Manitoba.

Dr. Anwar brings an integrative clinical approach β€” drawing from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), and mindfulness-based frameworks β€” and tailors her approach to the individual and group’s specific context. As a clinician from a South Asian, Muslim background with deep experience working across cultures and communities, she understands the particular pressures that shape the experience of South Asian women navigating professional and personal expectations.

The Anxiety Behind the Ambition

You do it all. You have ambition β€” a career, a family, expectations at work and at home. You’re navigating two worlds at once, and somehow you’re expected to excel in both without a scratch showing.

High-achieving South Asian women are often navigating something that doesn’t have a clean name. There is the drive to succeed β€” and underneath it, a persistent anxiety that the success is never quite enough, the boundaries are always stretched, and the internal critic is louder than the external results would warrant.Β 

This group is for women who recognize that pattern: the perfectionism that keeps pushing past the finish line, the pressure to meet professional and family expectations simultaneously, the habit of minimizing needs, and the difficulty of asking for support without justifying the ask.

Over eight structured sessions, participants work through these patterns with clinical tools grounded in evidence-based practice β€” in a group with others who share the cultural context without needing it explained.

Group Details

Discover all the tools and content covered each week

Understanding the Science & Story Behind Your Stress | πŸ“… Tuesday, July 21, 2026 Β· 75 minutes Β· Virtual (Secure Platform)

We begin by naming what has likely gone unnamed for years. This session introduces the neuroscience of anxiety and examines how South Asian cultural conditioning β€” the pressure to endure, to not burden others, to 'manage' β€” shapes the nervous system over time. Using psychoeducation rooted in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), participants will begin to map their own anxiety patterns, identify cognitive distortions tied to duty and perfectionism, and understand why high-achieving women often experience the most invisible distress.

When 'Good Enough' Was Never on the Table | πŸ“… Tuesday, July 28, 2026 Β· 75 minutes Β· Virtual (Secure Platform)

Perfectionism in South Asian women is rarely about vanity β€” it is a survival strategy, a way of staying safe in environments where mistakes meant shame and shame meant consequences. This session uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to distinguish healthy striving from self-defeating perfectionism. Participants will explore the values underneath their drive, identify where perfectionism is no longer serving them, and begin developing psychological flexibility β€” the capacity to act from values rather than fear.

Somatic Awareness, Burnout & the Physical Cost of High Functioning | πŸ“… Tuesday, August 4, 2026 Β· 75 minutes Β· Virtual (Secure Platform)

High-functioning anxiety often hides in the body long before it reaches the mind's awareness. Chronic tension, sleep disruption, digestive issues, and the inability to rest without guilt are not personality traits β€” they are physiological responses to sustained stress. This session integrates Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) and somatic awareness practices to help participants re-establish contact with their bodies, recognize early burnout signals, and develop a personalised regulation toolkit they can use between sessions and beyond.

Differentiating Love from Duty β€” and Setting Limits Without Losing Yourself | πŸ“… Tuesday, August 11, 2026 Β· 75 minutes Β· Virtual (Secure Platform)

This is often the session that hits hardest. Family obligation β€” caring for parents, managing expectations around marriage, career, or children, being the 'strong one' β€” is a real and often non-negotiable part of many participants' lives. This session does not ask women to abandon family. Instead, it uses Family Systems Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to help participants understand their role within the family structure, identify enmeshment versus genuine connection, and find language for setting limits that comes from self-respect rather than resentment.

Reclaiming Your Drive β€” On Your Own Terms | πŸ“… Tuesday, August 18, 2026 Β· 75 minutes Β· Virtual (Secure Platform)

For women who have spent years managing how much space they take up, owning ambition fully can feel unsafe, selfish, or simply unfamiliar. This session works at the intersection of Positive Psychology and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) to help participants reconnect with authentic motivation β€” the ambition that comes from genuine desire rather than the need to prove worth. Participants will explore what success actually means to them, separate from the metrics they inherited, and practise speaking about their goals without minimising, deflecting, or over-justifying.

Integration, Continuity & Carrying This Forward | πŸ“… Tuesday, August 25, 2026 Β· 75 minutes Β· Virtual (Secure Platform)

The final session is both a consolidation and a beginning. Participants will revisit the key insights and skills developed across the eight weeks, identify the specific patterns they are committing to changing, and build a concrete personalised plan for maintaining momentum beyond the group. Using Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT) and Motivational Interviewing principles, this session focuses on what is already working, what has already shifted, and how to sustain that shift in the weeks and months ahead. The session also includes space for collective reflection β€” because shared witness has been part of the healing.

HOW TO JOIN

Step 1: Reserve your spot

Register through our secure booking platform. A deposit is required to confirm placement.

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Step 2: Optional connection call

Not sure whether this group is right for you? Book a free 15-minute call with our care team or Dr. Anwar.

Prefer to contact us directly? Call 647-478-5464 or email info@sukooncares.com.

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Step 3: Confirmation and onboarding

Once registered, participants receive onboarding details and session information prior to the start date.

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Spots are limited to 10 participants. Once the group is full, we’ll open a waitlist.